SEXUAL PLEASURE | SMALL MANUAL OF ORGASM !

Does sexual pleasure seem complicated to you to reach and to give? A fulfilled sexuality is important for the balance of your life. The pleasure of the body is intimately linked to the pleasure of the mind. Loving sex brings comfort, but it is still necessary to know how to bring it and share it. Is making love one of your goals? Do you want to achieve orgasm? It's time to listen to your desires and needs!

Sexual pleasure: 6 tips to enjoy sex!

Do you want to get your kicks in all circumstances, experience supreme pleasure and go to seventh heaven? There are several criteria to check off to be part of the sexually fulfilled. Most of them are important and even essential! Do the math and see if you are on the right track or if you still have a long way to go.

1- The pleasure of the senses
Sexuality and the pleasure that comes from it are closely linked to your relationship with your body. The small mistake most people make is the lack of sensory connection with their inner self. Feeling with the five senses of the body is absolutely divine when done right! To achieve this during sex, practice on a daily basis. It's pretty simple, yet few people practice it. The idea is to really connect to each sense separately and then together to enhance your physical and spiritual awareness.

When you drink water, enjoy the coolness that flows down your throat. When you pet your pet, enjoy the softness of its hair on your skin. When you smell a scent, imagine what it means to you. When listening to music or birdsong, close your eyes and let yourself be transported. Finally, in everything you see, try to find the mysteries and things that are hidden in it. Basically, push the perception of every sense you have to develop your sensitivity. And you can do this every day, for anything and everything. It will give your life a new meaning. Tell yourself that when you make love, everything will be multiplied tenfold!

2- Exploring the erogenous zones
We enter the eroticism here. Once this sensory phase has been assimilated, it's time to get down to business! It is important to know your body. You will experience the same thing but with your own body and on a sexual ground. This is the time to really find yourself, to face the solitude for a little while and to ask yourself some questions: What is your body made of? Where are you in your sexuality? What do you like? How comfortable are you with touching yourself intimately? What form of pleasure and contact stimulates you the most? It's time to learn to connect deeply with your body. Needless to say, pleasure is linked to your brain and emotions. It's like an electrical circuit with your hands as the current generators! Like the exercise mentioned above, you will listen fully to the sensations emitted by your hands to get the maximum information. They will be very useful later. Do you orgasm faster by stroking your inner thighs? Good to know! Do you like firmness? Save it for later!

3- Allowing yourself to come
So many people don't allow themselves to come... This is especially true when it's time to explode! Women in particular often hold back for fear of what might happen afterwards, such as the famous fountain, a grimace, a scream, etc. As for men, not enough of them have really experienced orgasm, probably because of a too mechanical approach to sexuality. When you come for the first time, you look back and realize what you have been missing all your life! Whether it's education, society, our limiting barriers... coming should not be such a big obstacle. Letting go emotionally and physically is one and the same, don't forget it!

4- Psychological conditioning
You've learned to listen to your body, it's also time to listen to your inner voice... but also to silence it from time to time! Because the brain is probably the most powerful and determining tool for a fulfilled sexuality. It is the brain that generates emotions and sensations. Without the right conditions, sexual pleasure will not happen. For a man, this will be translated by a disturbed or even non-existent erection. In women, it will be seen by an absent behavior, sometimes simulation and potential vaginal dryness. It is not shameful to not be able to get into the bath, as they say. There are non-propitious periods and others that are perfectly suitable. The important thing is to take care of your mental health and get into that bubble of pleasure and sharing, leaving the rest to the outside. Loving yourself remains a priority to enjoy sex.


5- The deep connection
You now know how to connect with your own self. It's time to mix with the other person! After a while, you will feel like you are entering an unknown and higher plane of existence. This is called the sexual floating moment, when nothing else exists around you but you two and time stands still. You unite in a space that belongs only to you. This connection gives you a thrill and warmth all at the same time. It is as if you know each other's bodies and can even guess what they are thinking. You are one! To achieve this kind of chemistry, it is important to slow down your pace to match the other person's.

Practice the same exercises you do in your daily life:

listen to his or her heartbeat;
smell her scent;
taste her tongue, her sex and her whole body;
caress her skin, hair and sensitive areas;
Observe her body from every angle and look into her eyes.
During the rubbing and the back and forth, be sensitive to your feelings and to hers. You will then be able to reach the ultimate pleasure.

6- Listen and communicate
Listening is a two-way street: your person and the person in front of you. The communication of the body during sex is very specific, because it is expressed by animality but also by humanity. The important thing is to keep a part of spontaneity as well as a part of consciousness. It is a sensual dance. Words are not forbidden, on the contrary, because it is through them that you will verbalize and thus humanize the exchange. They will serve to reinforce the present moment. Do not hesitate to think about your own pleasure to increase tenfold that of your partner. Forgetting yourself is not a good idea, even if it is natural and altruistic, because we are the mirror of the other's desire. Don't forget yourself, give yourself in full consciousness, nuance!

Individual pleasure: masturbation as a gateway
Masturbation is sometimes seen as a guilty pleasure, especially in couples. However, it is what determines the health of an individual's sex life. It is capable of rekindling desire but above all of initiating and connecting the host to his own desires. Feeling good should be the first priority. And enjoying it during the early years of one's sexuality gives a huge advantage to the overall balance of a future relationship, as it eliminates emotional and sexual dependency. As long as it doesn't replace sex for the sake of the other, masturbation is an excellent complement. You can even do it during sex!

Having an orgasm: mechanical bodily pleasure?
Let's go back to the orgasm! Quite easy to access, it is very much associated with solitary pleasure, with good reason. Indeed, it is the simplest door to cross, which makes it a simple and fast pleasure. No need for particular emotions to reach it, because it is mainly linked to the body and its mechanisms. The sexual desire allows to make it come more easily especially when it is associated with the animality. We are talking here about the body as a primary functionality linked to reproduction. However, by being familiar, it becomes fulfilling. Now it is no match for its spiritual counterpart!

Sexual enjoyment: spiritual pleasure
If orgasm is the fleeting, physical, easy and lightning pleasure, enjoyment is a transcendental, spiritual, emotional and more difficult to access pleasure. Is it really? Not so much if you apply all the tips! To cum is to enjoy the whole act, not just the moment of orgasm. You can orgasm without coming, orgasm while coming, but also come without orgasming. It is the capacity to withdraw pleasure from each second that makes orgasm an exception. As for the apotheosis, it is like no other! It is a discharge of energy which leaves at the same time the brain and the sex to traverse all the body. It's like an indescribable heat wave. Want to know if you've come? Compare this moment with all your past sexual experiences and you'll know instantly.

The limits of carnal pleasure
If taking your pleasure in stride is accessible, giving it is less so. Because you can't control the other person. Even with the right gestures, the right approach, the right feelings, etc., you cannot determine the outcome of the entire sexual act. You don't give an orgasm, you don't make the other person come... You invite them to, no more, no less. It is not your responsibility nor your power. On the other hand, you have the duty to respect, to cherish and to make spend a good moment to this person! Because the sexual act remains a privileged moment where you reveal yourself, where you give yourself to the other person, and that marks internally and emotionally.

Sexual pleasure depends partly on you but also on your partner. To get all the know-how, learn the art of making love to a woman and the art of making love to a man.

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